This weekend should have been joyous. Two weddings to attend with frends and family. Your freinds wedding and my son's wedding. Since both people live in the same town in Northen ca., my son planned his wedding the same weekend as Shanes. It was a great idea so we didn't have to make a second 7 hr drive one way. Then all the joy slipped away. You informed me that you would not be attending my son's wedding and that I would need to drive seperately. Shocked. Hurt. Your reason was that your parents were watching your youngest daughter that weekend so you could attend the wedding. You didn't want to bother them with having her an extra day for my son's wedding. You felt bad for your parents, you said. I pointed out that this was a big day for me and my family, your extended family. I suggested we bring your daughter with us seeing that her mom lived 40 min away from where we would be, why drive back down to Socal and then half way up to Sacramento just a day later. ...